Good morning, Ann. You’ve asked how I meet men. There are many ways. Work is one, such as you, the wife of an ex-secretary of mine, and work has been the source of many lovers. Another is in the neighborhood, and I was the neighbor for at least 2 of my men. Spouses of friends have supplied some good men. Men who were caretakers for their mothers when I was for my mother, all in the same care facility. Professional engagements, doctor, dentist, architect. There’s no single source.